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Vibrators: What They Are and How to Use Them

This cheekily named Four Play set from Evolved involves four toys in one. “Just as much as they’re good for solo play, they’re also perfect to use during intercourse vibrator, as they’re unintimidating and small enough not to get in the way,” Alvarez Story says. “Bullet vibes are only designed for external use, not as much for insertion,” as they don’t have a flared base so they shouldn’t be used anally. But ironically, women’s sexual pleasure was the furthest thing from the minds of the male doctors who invented vibrators almost two centuries ago. Therein hangs a strange tale that provides quirky insights into both the history of sex toys and cultural notions about women’s sexuality. So when I heard about a three-in-one toy from Playboy’s Pleasure line called the Vibrato ($136, babeland.com), which functions as a wand vibrator, a vibrating dildo, and a G-spot stimulator, I decided to give it a spin.

It also features nine vibration modes, a silky-smooth silicone material, ripples at the fingertip, and lasts for 1.5 hours. Previously listed as one of the best sex toys for lesbian couples, this finger vibrator feels soft and natural (like human fingers!). Created to gently accommodate two fingers comfortably and securely, the extender provides a pleasurable experience while keeping great control, making it perfect for partner or solo finger play. When you purchase your mini vibrator or bullet, the first thing that you should do is read the instructions carefully.

Jess also hosts CityTV’s Intimately You, PlayboyTV’s hit reality series Swing, and her weekly @SexWithDrJess podcast alongside her husband, Brandon. If you struggle to achieve an orgasm and can’t pinpoint why, the Lioness Vibrator 2.0 was designed for you. If you’d prefer a more compact wand, or one that’s battery operated, try the Vibratex Mystic Wand Vibrator ($80). It’s made by the same company as the Magic Wand, but is much smaller and easier to travel with. You can’t talk about the best vibrator without talking about the Magic Wand. This classic vibrator has been around for decades and is still one of the best selling toys on the market.

But just when I thought the sex toy market had reached peak ingenuity, I was proven wrong, when a vibrator inspired by snails went viral on TikTok. These sex toys vary widely in terms of looks, operation, and the sensations they provide, but fall most commonly into two categories. You’re about to have this vibe literally and figuratively wrapped around your finger. You can use it together to spice up foreplay or use it alone when you need some me-time. This vibrating penis ring scores a whisper-quiet two out of five on Babeland’s volume scale. Besides keeping your pleasure sessions on the down low, it also possesses 10 intensity levels, an easy-on quick-release design and a custom fit among its many pros.

Below, shop top-rated, expert-recommended, and staffer-tested options from brands like Lelo, Dame, We-Vibe, and more. Thirdly, when you get your new vibrator, test its vibration strength on the tip of your nose first. You should feel it tickling your nostrils and sinuses, giving you an idea of how deep into your genital tissue it can stimulate. Remember, about 90 percent of the clitoris can’t be stimulated directly because it’s under the skin, so deep vibes are important.

So, the fact that it’s now within reach of a large swath of women could have a big impact — even if it is a costly gadget. And if you’re personally eager to up your orgasm game, this could be a valuable tool. To aid in that quest, the data collected from individual vibrators is being pooled to try to observe larger patterns. Don’t worry, thought, it’s anonymized and the company has taken pains to ensure your most intimate data is as secure as it can be.

While at Indiana University, I worked as a blogger and sex educator at the Kinsey Institute. Its flexibility and the fact that it’s waterproof make it adaptable for couples in all kinds of situations. Though its price tag is on the higher end of the spectrum at $199, it comes with a one-year warranty included for free.